I think we all understand that feeling of hate and jealousy of your boyfriend's ex, for no reason at all really. Up until now, I haven't really thought about it but because I have my boyfriend's ex's friends on my Facebook (before I even knew my boyfriend or his ex)and his ex added and spoke to him the other day on Facebook, I've noticed her more.
Despite his other ex's being a lot more attractive than his last ex and me, I have more of a fascination with her because she was with him the longest - she left more of an impression on him. However, I only just found out that he said if he had to pick the top two, he'd pick me and the one who added me on Facebook, so not his last one! I really don't know why his ex added me though, she doesn't even speak to me, never has.
Something about her knowing people who went to my school, one of which decided to hate me, seems to hit a nerve for some reason. It's weird to think that I met the girl who hated me when I was with my first ex like 3 years before I met my current boyfriend. The last thing I would've thought is that she knew the future (then) girlfriend of my future soulmate. It's so weird to think that. It's such a small world.
I could have a problem with the fact that these people are still friends with my boyfriend and friends with me. I believe they had been before him and his ex got together and they were Facebook friends with me before me and him even met. I thought about how the people on my Facebook could be informing my boyfriend's ex of what me and him are doing all the time - a sneaky way of keeping track of us and our relationship. His ex did add him to be nosy and she was honest about that, but was soon defriended.
There is just something about ex's which makes you drawn to them. You compare yourself so much to them though I feel like I'm an upgrade compared to his last ex which is pretty shocking because I have quite a low self esteem. Whenever her friends post pictures, I'm always drawn to look at them and see his ex - to see if she looks happy or sad usually.